The article examines how to conduct feminist ethnography through collaborative methodologies that acknowledge the privileges and vulnerabilities of women researchers in contexts of patriarchal violence. It presents three case studies—Indigenous women victims of sexual violence, incarcerated women, and relatives of disappeared persons—to reflect on the ethics of care and a decolonial approach. It challenges the traditional view of fieldwork as a masculinist rite of passage and proposes the co-production of knowledge with the research subjects. Finally, it advocates for alternative forms of ethnographic writing that make visible the voices and resistances of women in extreme contexts.